When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times | Pema Chodron
Title: When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times Author: Pema Chodron I checked out this book from the library thinking it might be a helpful resource while navigating the heavy grief of divorce. I was looking for a life raft during a turbulent time; instead, I got a handful of thin air and about 100,000 different ways of being told to "change my perspective." The first few pages set this book up as a memoir, which led me to expect personal stories and relatable human experiences. Instead, there is a distinct lack of substance. There are almost no illustrative stories or examples of how the author actually applied her teachings to her own life. This is a major flaw: a memoir should use personal stories to build out its points. Without them, the book just loops the same "change your mindset" advice without ever showing the work. For a book that discusses specific philosophical concepts, it stays frustratingly surface-level. It's full of general ref...